Congratulations! Whether you're moving into your first apartment, relocating for a new job, or taking that exciting leap into homeownership, your first move is a major milestone. It's completely normal to feel a mix of excitement and nervousness—moving involves a lot of moving parts (pun intended!). But here's the good news: with the right preparation and mindset, your first move can be smooth, organized, and even enjoyable.
This guide will walk you through everything you need to know, from your first planning steps to settling into your new space. Let's make your first move a success!
When to Start Planning Your Move
The golden rule of moving? Start early. Ideally, you should begin planning 6-8 weeks before your move date. This gives you plenty of time to research, organize, and avoid the last-minute panic that leads to forgotten items and unnecessary stress.
Here's a basic timeline to follow:
- 6-8 weeks before: Create a moving budget, research moving companies or rental trucks, and start decluttering
- 4-6 weeks before: Book your movers or reserve your truck, gather packing supplies, and notify your landlord
- 2-4 weeks before: Start packing non-essentials, change your address, and transfer utilities
- 1 week before: Pack remaining items, confirm details with movers, and prepare an essentials box
If you're working with a shorter timeline, don't panic! Focus on the essentials: securing transportation, getting boxes, and packing systematically room by room.
Pro Tip for First-Timers
Create a moving binder or digital folder to keep all your important documents in one place: lease agreements, moving quotes, receipts, utility account numbers, and your moving checklist. You'll thank yourself later!
DIY Move vs. Professional Movers: Making the Right Choice
One of your first big decisions is whether to hire professional movers or do it yourself. Both options have their merits, and the right choice depends on your budget, distance, amount of stuff, and physical capability.
DIY Moving: When It Makes Sense
A DIY move can save you money and give you complete control over the process. It's ideal if you're:
- Moving locally (under 50 miles)
- Working with a tight budget
- Moving from a small apartment or studio
- Able to recruit friends or family to help
- Physically capable of lifting heavy items
Remember to factor in truck rental costs, gas, insurance, packing materials, and pizza for your helpers! Sometimes the "savings" aren't as significant as they first appear.
Professional Movers: Worth the Investment
Professional movers cost more upfront, but they bring expertise, efficiency, and peace of mind. Consider hiring pros if you're:
- Moving long-distance
- Moving a large home with lots of furniture
- Short on time or physical help
- Dealing with valuable or fragile items
- Moving during a busy work period
Get at least three quotes from reputable companies, check reviews, and verify they're licensed and insured. Ask about their experience, what's included in the price, and their damage policy.
Red Flags to Watch For
Avoid movers who demand large deposits upfront, don't offer written estimates, or don't have proper licensing. If a quote seems too good to be true, it probably is. Legitimate movers will conduct an in-home or virtual assessment before providing an accurate quote.
Essential Moving Supplies You'll Need
Having the right supplies makes packing infinitely easier. Here's what you'll need:
- Boxes in various sizes (small for books, medium for most items, large for lightweight bulky items)
- Packing tape and a tape dispenser
- Bubble wrap and packing paper
- Markers for labeling
- Furniture blankets or old sheets
- Plastic wrap for drawers and upholstered items
- Scissors and box cutters
- Ziplock bags for small parts and hardware
Save money by getting free boxes from grocery stores, liquor stores, or online marketplaces. Just make sure they're sturdy and clean. You can also use suitcases, laundry baskets, and bins you already own.
How to Pack Efficiently: Room-by-Room Strategy
Efficient packing is all about strategy. Here's how to tackle it like a pro:
Start with What You Don't Use Daily
Begin with guest rooms, storage areas, seasonal items, and decorative pieces. This builds momentum without disrupting your daily life. Pack one room at a time to stay organized and avoid mixing items from different spaces.
Label Everything Clearly
Write the room name and a brief description of contents on at least two sides of each box. Use color-coded labels or markers for different rooms. Mark boxes containing fragile items clearly. Trust us—your future self will be grateful when you're unpacking at 9 PM and need to find the coffee maker.
Pack Heavy Items in Small Boxes
Books, tools, and canned goods should go in small boxes to keep them manageable. Use large boxes for lightweight items like pillows, linens, and lampshades. Fill empty spaces with packing paper or towels to prevent shifting.
Protect Fragile Items
Wrap dishes individually and pack them vertically (like records) rather than stacked flat. Use towels, socks, and t-shirts as padding to save on bubble wrap. For electronics, use original boxes if you have them, or wrap well and label which cords go with which device.
Create an Essentials Box
Pack a clearly labeled box (or suitcase) with everything you'll need for the first 24-48 hours: toiletries, medications, phone chargers, a change of clothes, basic tools, paper plates and utensils, snacks, important documents, and basic cleaning supplies. Keep this with you during the move, not on the truck.
Smart Packing Hack
Take photos of the back of your TV and electronics before disconnecting them. This makes setup in your new place much easier. Also, tape remotes to their corresponding devices so nothing gets lost.
What to Expect on Moving Day
Moving day can feel chaotic, but knowing what to expect helps you stay calm and in control.
Morning Preparation
Start early—most moves begin between 8-10 AM. Have a good breakfast and dress in comfortable, practical clothing and closed-toe shoes. Do a final walkthrough to ensure nothing is left behind in closets, cabinets, or storage areas.
If You're Using Professional Movers
Be present when movers arrive to answer questions and point out fragile or valuable items. Review the inventory list they create and note any pre-existing damage. Stay available but out of the way—let the professionals do their job. Keep important documents, valuables, and your essentials box with you.
If You're DIY Moving
Load heavy items first, placing them toward the front of the truck. Distribute weight evenly side to side. Stack boxes with heavier ones on bottom, and fill gaps to prevent shifting. Secure everything with straps or rope. Make sure someone is always with the truck when it's loaded.
At Your New Place
Do a quick clean before unloading if possible. Direct boxes to their designated rooms—this saves countless trips later. Check that utilities are working (water, electricity, heat/AC). Inspect furniture and boxes for damage as they're unloaded.
Common First-Timer Mistakes to Avoid
Learn from others' experiences and sidestep these common pitfalls:
- Underestimating how much stuff you have: Most first-timers need more boxes and more time than they think. Overestimate both.
- Not decluttering first: Moving is the perfect time to purge. Don't pay to move things you don't need or want.
- Forgetting to measure: Measure doorways, stairwells, and your new space before moving day. That couch might not fit!
- Not changing your address: Update your address with the post office, banks, subscriptions, and government agencies at least two weeks before moving.
- Packing without a system: Random packing leads to chaos during unpacking. Stick to the room-by-room method.
- Not reserving parking or elevator time: If you're in an apartment or condo, reserve loading zones and elevators in advance.
- Ignoring insurance: Whether DIY or professional, make sure your belongings are covered during the move.
- Not taking photos: Document the condition of both your old and new place to protect your security deposit.
Settling Into Your New Home
Once the truck is unloaded, the real fun begins—making your new place feel like home.
First Week Priorities
Focus on essentials first: set up your bed, unpack the kitchen basics, and get the bathroom functional. These are the spaces you'll use every day. Don't feel pressured to unpack everything immediately—it's okay to take your time with decorative items and less essential spaces.
Explore Your New Neighborhood
Take breaks from unpacking to explore. Find the nearest grocery store, pharmacy, coffee shop, and other essentials. Introduce yourself to neighbors—they can be great resources for local recommendations and might become good friends.
Handle the Administrative Tasks
Update your driver's license and vehicle registration, register to vote at your new address, find new doctors and dentists, and transfer or set up new services (internet, trash, etc.). These tasks aren't fun, but checking them off your list feels great.
Make It Yours
Hang artwork, arrange furniture until it feels right, add plants or personal touches, and consider a small housewarming gathering once you're settled. Creating a space that reflects your personality helps it feel like home faster.
Give Yourself Grace
Remember, settling in takes time. It's normal for your new place to feel unfamiliar at first. Most people say it takes about three months to feel truly settled. Be patient with yourself and celebrate small victories along the way.
You're Ready for This!
Your first move is a significant life event, and it's natural to feel overwhelmed at times. But with proper planning, the right resources, and a positive attitude, you can absolutely nail it. Remember that everyone's first move has its hiccups—what matters is how you adapt and problem-solve along the way.
Take it one step at a time, don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it, and try to enjoy the journey. This move represents growth, independence, and new opportunities. Years from now, you'll look back on this experience with pride (and probably some funny stories).
Welcome to your new home—you've got this!



